Maybe We Don’t Have a Discipleship Problem

As a person who has spent their whole life in church and working in church and ministry, I have been an advocate to anyone who would listen that we have a gigantic discipleship problem in Evangelical and Evangelical adjacent places. I now believe I am wrong.
[*If you need it, see below for a caveat.]
Here’s what I’m thinking.

What is Discipleship?

Discipleship is a Christ-followers active engagement to discern God’s will and voice for themselves and then obey in a lifestyle of sacrificial love with Jesus as our model. There are practices (or habits, or disciplines) that we adopt to maintain that connection to the Holy Spirit. The simple ones are prayer, Bible study, and fellowship and commitment to other followers of Christ. There are more of course.
None of this should be revolutionary.

We have generations of American church goers that are nominally christian but have little evidence that they are involved in this discipleship process, but (and here is the big kicker) they have evidence that they are adherents to American civil religion: a form of patriarchal, family values; consumerism/materialism; militarism; and being a good, white, middle class person. It is a syncretism between western culture’s definition of liberty with biblical sounding names. Perhaps first century Christians had it easier with Rome’s clear paganism and idolatry while we have ours wrapped in centuries of Christian language. Perhaps.

A Note About Systems

Systems are perfectly designed to produce the results they produce. This is axiomatic. We often call a system broken or dysfunctional when it is producing unwanted results. In one way this is true, in another way it is not. The system needs to be seen as working properly. Generally, in my experience, we lay the blame at the feet of people who, we say, are not following the program. Instead, if there is a problem, and I am drawing a fine hair distinction here, it is that we have a system that is working as it is designed to do—but it is committed to the wrong set of principles and goal.

Said another way, in many churches, our discipleship systems are working properly if the goal is to create adherents of American civil religion, because that is what they are producing. While our systems are dysfunctional (if the goal is Christ-followers), it is not true that they are not working as designed. The systems are working well. That is what we must come to see. I have spent most of my time thinking the systems are not working. This is where I have been wrong.

  • Church leaders are bowing at the feet of corporate principles, but lack the courage to challenge their congregations to the revolutionary lifestyle that models Jesus. What does it profit to grow your church and lose your soul?
  • Christians hold the American flag as sacred and pledge allegiance to what it embodies. Sacred means connected with God (or the gods) or dedicated to a religious purpose and so deserving veneration (Apple’s dictionary). That’s idolatry for those who profess allegiance to Christ.
  • Women are denigrated to second class status and denied their full humanity… in churches!
  • The most racist segments of our society are so-called Christians who find justification in the same Bible interpretations employed by enslavers of 200 years ago. The KKK was an America-first organization that wanted to return to a “Christian” hierarchy. It has many adherents today, although they don’t have the courage to go by that name they have adopted the Christian Nationalism label and written books in defense of this ideology.

All of which is never challenged in our sermons and Bible study materials. In fact, it is propagated in our materials. The system is working as designed. We ought to know better.

So What’s the Antidote?

Though perhaps hard to hear, much of what we say is Christian is simply not. This is why I have been a fan of deconstruction. The closer you get to Jesus, the more you realize you cannot stay within a false religion. Do some take it too far? Perhaps. Better than not far enough, I say. Wildfire is better than no fire. I’ll take a radical pursuit of good over status quo compromise any day.

4 Then I heard another voice from heaven say:

“‘Come out of her, my people,’[a]
so that you will not share in her sins,
so that you will not receive any of her plagues;

Revelation 18:4

We need to shake the dust off our feet from a compromised, American civil religion/Christian Nationalism/slaveholder religion and recommit to the Kingdom of God’s shalom.

There are a few principles that I believe would be prescriptive for those who are looking for a cure and truly want to follow Christ:

  • Eschew fundamentalism and anti-intellectualism. I am happy to see a resurgence among average Christians in scholarly conversations about the Bible. Podcasts seem to be helping this as more people are made aware of these conversations and they are more accessible to the average person like me. We need a more robust interpretation of scripture that doesn’t prop up our cultural compromises. OnScript and The Bible for Normal People and the Jude 3 Project are good resources here.
  • I would like to see more practical help in developing a personal prayer life. Not the quiet time of my youth, but an engaging, contemplative union with Jesus. Brian Zahnd’s prayer school is the kind of thing I am thinking about. Here’s a link to some of his thoughts on prayer.
  • We need to submit to leadership that is outside the rutted grooves of white evangelicalism and the stranglehold of white supremacy. This means non-white leadership. Yes, I am making a blanket statement. It is not an accident that Black Christians in America continue to outpace other groups in orthodoxy, Bible reading, and prayer. For many of us, we need to relearn what it means to be a Christ-follower, so let’s go to where the real Christians are and submit to their leadership.

Begin here, the rest will take care of itself. If you seek, you will find. If you knock the door will be opened.

Conclusion

We don’t have a discipleship problem, we have a competing religion functioning as designed all around us.

Resources for further reflection:

  • Reconstructing the Gospel: Finding Freedom from Slaveholder Religion
    by Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove
  • Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation
    by Kristin Kobes Du Mez
  • The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth
    by Beth Allison Barr
  • Was America Founded as a Christian Nation?
    John Fea
  • The Color of Compromise
    Jemar Tisby

*Caveat
I can hear someone saying, “NOT ALL, Mike,” as they read this. OK. Fine. Sure there are faithful Christians still in these places. That’s who I’m writing to.

A New Definition of Leadership

Before we get started, it may be good idea to explore what we are talking about. Some people do not like the word leadership in reference to Christians. After all, we should be servants. While that is true, the Bible uses the word leader to talk about people serving the church body. What is leadership?

1 Tim 3:1 — “Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task.”
Being an overseer is noble, not inherently wrong.

Heb 13:7 — “Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.”
Here leaders are spoken of highly and considered a model for behavior.

Rom 12:6–8 — “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.”
Here leadership is listed as a gift given by God. They are admonished to lead diligently.

1 Tim 5:17 —  “The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.”
Those who lead, and do it well, are worthy of good pay and respect.

Mark 10:42–45 — Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Here the kind of leadership is emphasized, but not the negation of leadership. We are to look like Jesus and serve others. That is how we lead.

I would contend that it is always right to examine ourselves and question whether what we are doing is right and just and of God. Although there are many examples of failure all around us, I am more interested in scripture holding up a mirror to my soul and being honest about what I see there. Things should look like the Kingdom of God inside of me and inside of the church. Too often they look similar to what is going on around us in culture. Leadership in my mind simply means those going first and out front, and if we couple that with a culturally-informed, conquering, superiority mindset, we get into all sorts of trouble.

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Year in Review — 50’s done; here’s 51!

With my big 50th behind me, I wanted to share some of my favorite things from 2018
Before I get to some of my favorite things, I want to acknowledge that this has been an emotionally tough year. Where I work, we have undergone some staff transitions and that is always hard even when people are going to follow new assignments. In the fall, my good friend Luke was diagnosed with non Hodgkin’s lymphoma and has conquered it with joy. He is the joy taser. In addition, watching other close friends go through personally tough situations is very stressful and you never quite know how to help. Maybe this seemingly increase in seriousness is part of getting older? It’s hard regardless.

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I Never Knew You

Recently, I came across some insights in a book I have been reading that help flesh out some ideas I have been struggling to name. Let’s get into it.

The goal of spiritual disciplines

If you ask someone how to grow as a Christian they will tell you to read your Bible and pray. It’s not bad advice, but it is universally almost never followed. Few Christians read their Bible, or have an informed and rich engagement with it. Even fewer have fulfilling, meaningful prayer lives. I know all about that having walked with Jesus since I was a young child—having tried to get to know Jesus since I was a young child. Now that I am 50 I am beginning to see some things differently.

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Here I Stand. Non-Negotiable Principles

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“Here I stand I can do no other. God help me. Amen.”
~Martin Luther

It’s a statement of extreme. It’s a declaration that you will die on this hill, fight until your last breath, be willing to lose everything to not lose this one thing. Here I stand, I can do no other. My conscience is convinced. It is nonnegotiable —something not open to discussion or modification.

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